How many of you have failed till
date? Ever felt bad that why it had to be you who had to go through the pain of
failure? Yes I have failed enough number of times to remember actually every
precise experiences. At the 1st time it’s a pain to see your friends
move on ahead and you left behind. Time passes by and you act like it’s a matter
of the past, but the truth remains that the pain of failure never ever leaves
your mind.
“Success is not final, failure
is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
I have failed a lot in life, in my studies,
in love life and so on, but still every time I fail again it seems to be a new
feeling altogether. Experiences make a man, but learning from life is what
holds more importance. Remember what was the reason you had to get into that
phase. Recollect the past along with the present it holds. Adjust yourself so
as to understand how not to repeat the mistakes again. Failure should lead you
forward to make new path. The examples of various eminent personalities talk
for themselves, by showing you how failure has leaded them to be the most successful.
When I started of as a blogger,
neither was I successful on the go but with time and my experiences in the
field I am growing and learning new. Life is adjusting yourself to the changes
it brings to your life. Such little adjustments lets you grow to the position you
can believe in yourself. Even as a kid, you fall innumerable times before you
can actually walk. But did that hold you back from running with time. You grew
experienced and learnt from your mistake; what was going wrong and tried to
rectify it on the way to progress. Some failures are turning point for the person’s
progress, while some holds to be the just the little building blocks to the cross
the hurdle that stands ahead.
Failure is not a thing that happens
only to you, it also happens with others in their daily life. But now there is
a little learning from that around you. Just like you should remember your
mistakes and work on it so as to not repeat it and progress. Likewise remembering
and understanding the mistakes performed by people around you is an also vital.
Because at times the solutions to your problems maybe residing within their
mistakes. Not necessary that you get to learn something new from it always, but
lending a helping hand to the person who has done something wrong helps you to
bond better. Existence of failure is very vital for the person who experiences
it and the people around him viewing it. No man in this world can stand his
ground by saying he has never faced failure. If he says so, then it should mean
he lies a lot or as a matter just hasn’t tried anything new.
“You may encounter many defeats,
but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the
defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still
come out of it.”
“Only those who dare to fail
greatly can ever achieve greatly.”