Love is an emotion of a strong
affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue
representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection "the
unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".
That’s what how Wikipedia defines love
to be in its own sense. Maybe the words used above to define love were a
theological or more to say a theoretical formatting of love. I think most of
you will readily approve with what Wikipedia has to convey because it’s precise
and straight forward. Yes I do also affirm to whatever is written above, love
is a feeling a strong feeling that holds two things one living- A total
compulsion and another may or may not be living.
Love is universal and omnipresent.
It’s only dependent on the eye of the viewer how he perceives it to be. Love
has been in the world since life has started on the planet. There are various
different phases of love that we see from our day to day life or time to time.
LOVE is a humanely feeling but I care about two things the most in life. It’s
necessary to understand the term in order to understand who is the best person
for us to believe in or lay our trust in.
Lets start with the time we were
born probably a cold winter night in a room full of strangers to us then not
knowing where we are or who we are. The only place we could find refuge, peace and
comfort was within our mother’s arms. A mother will never say that she has only
an "affinity" for the child she carries in her during pregnancy. She
is attached psychologically, physically and emotionally to the child. This is
arguably the very first experience any of us has of love, and the notion of
"attachment" here is absolutely relevant it is arguably where it
derives ultimately. It is certainly not a “self-centered” or "ego-feeding"
phenomenon. Many mothers would sacrifice their lives to save their child
without hesitating to think beforehand. Now I would certainly believe all of
you would accept this very fact that this love can’t be ever distrusted or
avoided even if we want to.
After your mother then probably the
second most loving person you find on earth is your father. Some of you may
hate him for being strict and harsh at times, but then you can’t avoid the very
fact that somewhere deep inside burns the desire in you that you still love him
and you can’t ignore or avoid him at the times when he may need for your help.
He gives you money for your needs and also helps you through all the difficult
times that you face in life. In my personal experience I would say, I love my
dad more than my mom because he always has been like a friend and a tormentor
when situation asked for. He has been strict enough not to allow certain
things, that he thought are not necessary but also have understood the
situation and prior done things even without me asking. He has been my ‘Santa
Claus’ when I was young and my ‘Hitler’ when I turned teen. That’s how a
fathers love always has been throughout history – strong, bold, harsh and yet
caring inside.
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